Learn To Approach Question: I’ve been with my girlfriend for over three years and things between us have always been up and down.
I found out two weeks ago that the last six months she’s been cheating on me. When I confronted her about this at first she denied it but then she admitted that she had been cheating on me. She said the only way I’m going to get over it is I can have a free pass to sleep with any woman I wanted to. Do you think if I sleep with someone else it’s going to make the pain go away? Terry Scotland
My Thoughts: Terry, I am sorry to hear that your girlfriend cheated on you, you must be feeling very down at the moment. Reading between the lines of your question what you are asking me is if you get revenge on your girlfriend will it make things better. To be honest it probably won’t, in fact I think it would make the situation worse.
It seems to me that you really like this girl so if you really liked her why would you want to sleep with somebody else? The fact is your girlfriend cheated on you and this offer of a free pass is her way of trying to take the heat off her.
In this situation you have two choices, the first is to forgive and forget. Now if you choose to forgive and forget this means you can’t ever bring it up with her again, you just have to let it go and hope that she will not cheat on you again. The second choice you have is my personal preference and that is to get rid of a and move on.
I don’t mean to sound negative but chances are cheated on you once she will cheat on you again. You also have to take into account if she says she’s going out with her friends are you going to be sitting at home thinking is she with her friends with another guy? My advice is to end it and I know that may not be the advice you are looking for, but it is advice you will thank me for in the future.
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